But don’t seek your energy through me
We tend to think we’re the only one feeling this way, the only one struggling this way and that *no one* would understand. But when you socialise, talk to people, discuss ideas, listen to their stories, and you realize there are so many out there going through *almost* the SAME struggle you’re going through! Or even worse! Allah knows our weaknesses and He throws challenges our way, and EXACTLY those challenges that target our weak spot. Until we struggle, struggle and struggle and breakdown, and turn back to the One who we should have never moved way from, not even a centimetre away, not even a millimetre away. Without Allah beside us, we are *never* going to heal perfectly.
Turn to Allah, who is the Creator of your heart and so He knows perfectly how to repair it! Don’t rely on yourself for strength, or on another human being. Humans are weak and unstable. Only Allah heals us completely and strengthens us with a strength that is unshakeable, independent of any support from temporary worldly things (like music, alcohol, etc. that only distract us but not heal us), and independent of any support from fellow humans. Humans are weak and they can never give you perfect happiness. So stop looking for peace and strength in the wrong places. End the cycle of heartbreak and disappointment. Allah, your Lord, will make you self-sufficient with a strength that you thought you could *never* possess. A strength that lasts as long as you hold hands with Him… and so it is a strength that lasts forever until your last breath and until you step into His Paradise inshaAllah